Very good advice, thank you.
I would accept limitations. I understand that some of the things we did when younger were never really good. I mean think of it, are human wrists at any age really designed for handling the stress of repetitively hitting a heavy bag? Even so it's very difficult for me to accept a new limitation, something I know I could do before. It's a clear sign of what's waiting around the corner. I find that very hard to deal with. I don't know how for 40 years I thought somehow it did/would not apply to me. I wish I could return to that psychological state. It is our lot as men to go through this sad process.